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Maybe I missed something - so feel free to tell me if I did.
Us Weekly ran a story yesterday about how Gossip Girl Michelle Trachtenberg, 26, "isn't down with booty calls." She told Us that her exes tend to creep back into her life during the holidays. "My mom cooks a massive feast, and every year ex-boyfriends start texting me things like, 'Hey! What's going on? How's your mom?' And I have to say, "buddy, it's not going to happen."
Her famous exes include Fall Out Boy's Pete Wentz, Sex and the City's Jason Lewis, X-Men's Shawn Ashmore and The Muppets' Jason Segel. But, Michelle said she's too busy with her career to focus on past relationships.
Hmmm....ok.
What's not going to happen? She isn't inviting them to dinner? Or a rekindling of their romance isn't happening? My guess is that she means the latter, but I missed the part where anyone asked for a booty call or even a date.
And, doesn't a booty call from a man sound more like "hey, why don't you come over?" or "hey, I want to see you" at a random hour of the night without a date preceding said [booty] call.
For her to say, "Buddy, it's not going to happen" is premature. She didn't mention that they were even asking her out for her to say that she is "far too busy to focus on past relationships." She reminds me of the woman who swears every man wants her, yet she isn't being asked out for a serious Rules date.
I am not a big fan of staying friends with an ex once the relationship ends. Yet, I also maintain that unless it's Rules, a man shooting you a quick text isn't sincere interest. Really, it's static...noise.
I'm telling women to not jump the gun and assume a man wants you because he says, 'hello.' You might embarrass yourself. Worse, you could make a man defensive, forcing him to say, "hey, I just wanted to say 'hi.'" Don't humiliate yourself and end up rejected. All in all, he's just being polite (or is maybe bored) unless he's asking for a date. Period.
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